Tuesday, December 7, 2010

A Carseat, Cloth Diapers, and a Crib Mattress

When people ask me if we've been busy getting things ready for baby, my response is, "Um . . . not really."  I have a feeling that, once the holidays are past, I will suddenly realize how much there is to do and buy.  Case in point: the crib that's been sitting, disassembled, in a spare bedroom for two months while it's space in the to-be nursery is still occupied by a computer desk and filing cabinet.

But there are some things that we've been slowly preparing for baby, like a starter stash of cloth diapers, a carseat, and a crib mattress.

Let's all admire the carseat first.  It's a True Fit Premier, which I have been coveting for a long time, and I was so excited when I scored one from diapers.com for about $90 off.  I have done a lot of research on carseats, and this is one of the kings of the carseat world.  It came to our doorstep last Tuesday and I was so excited.


The True Fit is much-loved in the carseat world.  It has fantastic safety ratings and is a great fit for newborns (which is important, since we're not planning to use an infant seat at all) all the way up to 65 pounds.  All of my research convinced me of two things:
  1. It's really important to keep your child rear-facing until they outgrow the rear-facing weight limit of the carseat.  Most people still believe that you should turn the carseat to forward-facing once a child is 1 year old and 20 pounds.  This is the bare minimum to be legal, but that doesn't mean it's the safest way - children should ideally stay rear-facing as long as their carseat will safely allow.  A child is 5 times safer riding rear-facing than forward-facing.  For that matter, adults would be safer riding in a car rear-facing, too, but obviously that's just not going to work out!!  Anyway, this carseat will rear-face to up to 35 pounds, which is good
  2. Once a child is turned forward-facing, they are safest if kept in a carseat with a 5-point harness until they have reached either the weight limit or the height limit of the seat (typically 1 inch below the top of the shell).  This carseat has a weight limit of 65 pounds, which is fantastic.
The carseat we bought has a 2017 expiration date (Did you know that carseats expire?  The date is printed on the back/bottom of the seat.  The plastic and material can deteriorate over time, and you won't know until the carseat fails in a crash).  So we should get a lot of good use out of it (provided we don't get into a crash with it and have to replace it).  Plus, it's pretty and seems really comfy for baby.  :)

Now, about cloth diapers . . .

I always planned on using cloth diapers, but I assumed they were still the old-fashioned kind.  A few years ago (yes, years), I happened across a reference to modern cloth diapers, was intrigued, looked them up, and became obsessed.  There are so many options for cloth diapering these days, and believe it or not, they are making a comeback as more and more people find out about them.  (A lot of people still look at me like I'm nuts when I mention using cloth, though - they talk about diaper pins and plastic pants and leaks and other things that are completely irrelevant with modern cloth diapers.)  Although I'm not against disposables and am sure we'll use those at times, too, I love the idea of not sending thousands of diapers full of my baby's waste to sit in a landfill until the end of time.  I also think cloth diapers are better for baby (all the chemicals in disposables are kind of disturbing when you really think about it) and bound to be more comfortable (after all, I prefer cloth underwear to Depends - haha!).  Also, disposable diapers get expensive!  Cloth diapers are an up-front investment, but will end up saving money in the long run, even with the extra utility costs from washing them (as long as you don't go too cloth-diaper-crazy and break your budget buying every cute new diaper that comes along).

Plus, they are irresistibly cute and fluffy!

Here's the stash that I've built so far:

5 BumGenius 3.0 one-size
6 Tiny Tush Elite one-size
4 Thirsties Duo Diapers size 1
2 Wahmies one-size
1 Sposoeasy all-in-one, size XS
3 Thirsties Duo Wraps covers, size 1
12 orange-edge and 12 yellow-edge GMD Cloth-Eez prefolds

One-size diapers, for example, are nice because they have multiple snap-down rise settings and an adjustable snap or aplix (Velcro) closure, so you can use them for a long time - in some cases from birth all the way to potty-training.  Here's an example of the Tiny Tush Elite at four different size settings so you can see the kind of range I'm talking about:

The prefolds and covers are really simple to use, too.  Just adjust the cover to the size setting you want, trifold the prefolded diaper and lay it in the cover, and presto!  The inside of the cover can be wiped clean, so you can use the same cover several times before it needs to be washed.


I also have a couple other styles of cloth diapers that I plan to try, so my stash is not quite complete, but I'm happy with what I have so far.  I'll probably also use a newborn cloth diaper rental program to rent 24 fitted diapers that will fit from birth to about 3 months to help us get through that newborn stage without having to do diaper laundry every day.

If you keep reading my blog after the baby is here, I'm sure you'll see more posts about cloth diapering as I try them out and learn more.  I'm really excited to get started . . . I love all this adorable fluff!

To wrap up this long (and probably boring) post, a little online shopping excitement.  I had already picked out the crib mattress that I wanted.  On Sunday, I found it online at amazon.com for $65, which is a really good price.  (I checked the price history, and $70 is about as low as it goes - the list price is typically about $90.)  But I decided not to buy it right then and there.

On Monday morning, I checked the price and it was $75.  GRRR!  I was so upset that I hadn't bought it the night before.  There must be something wrong with me that I would let something like a $10 price difference ruin my morning.

Monday night around 9 p.m., I checked again - it was now available for $60!  My joy could not be measured.  (Plus, I had $20 in amazon.com gift cards from using Swagbucks, so I actually got it for only $40 with free shipping.  Don't know about Swagbucks?  I'll definitely write a post about that soon!)

Did I buy it?  You'd better believe it!

Today the price is back at $75, so I really squeezed into that window of opportunity.  Now I have to stop checking it because I'll be upset if the price goes lower than $60.  :)  But I feel pretty confident that I got a good deal, and I'm rather addicted to good deals.  Could you tell?

I prefer to focus on the things that we have bought/done/accomplished rather than all the things that we still have to take care of.  I don't dare make a to-do list for fear that seeing it all in writing will stress out this mama-to-be!

(If you made it to the end of this long and rambling post, you deserve an award!)

From Loving the Life We Live

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Snowy Saturday

How Greg and I have been spending this snowy Saturday:
  • making a scrumptious snowy Saturday breakfast: bacon, fried eggs, and toasted bagels
  • finally decorating the Christmas tree and finishing our other decorating
  • wrapping lots of presents for little girls being sponsored by Greg's work
  • listening to the Christmas station on the radio
  • watching three squirrels playing in the beautiful falling snow



We always display all of the Christmas cards that we get along the fireplace mantel.  As you can see, so far we have only one lonely card . . . so send more our way to keep it company!  :)

 And to end with an update: I had another doctor's appointment yesterday.  Everything continues to go well.  Baby's heartbeat was clocking in at 145-148 bpm; currently he or she is lying sideways (as I could tell, from the locations of the kicks and punches that I'm getting these days); I weighed in at 149 lbs (gulp!).  Our next appointment will be December 30, and after that I start going every 2 weeks instead of every 4 weeks.  It's amazing how fast the weeks are slipping by!

I hope you're enjoying your Saturday, be it snowy or otherwise.

From Loving the Life We Live

Monday, November 29, 2010

24 weeks

I enjoyed an exciting new experience this past weekend.  For the first time, there were a few occasions where the baby was kicking me so hard that you could see my stomach move.  It was really, really cool.  :)  Bring on the next 16 weeks!

From Loving the Life We Live

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Thankful

We have so much to be thankful for this Thanksgiving.  Greg and I have both been so blessed with wonderful, loving families; caring friends; good health; and secure jobs.  And we are especially thankful this year for the new little life growing inside of me (who is right now kicking me, wondering when we are going to have some turkey).

How special it is that we have a day set aside that reminds us to reflect on our many blessings and give thanks to the Giver of all that is good.

Happy Thanksgiving to you all!

From Loving the Life We Live

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

My Registry

Whoever first came up with the idea for baby registries at stores was a business genius.

Think about it.  Before registries, people would just buy a gift from anywhere they pleased.  Now, if you get a baby shower invitation noting that "So-and-so is registered at Babies R Us," people will go out of their way to find a Babies R Us and purchase the product there.  It totally drums up business and keeps people coming to one specific store instead of spreading their purchases out among numerous stores.  I'm pretty sure that people purchasing from registries have to make up a huge chunk of Target's business . . . it seems like everyone registers at Target, even though, in my opinion, Target doesn't really have that much variety as far as baby stuff.

A few weeks ago, I went with my future sister-in-law to BuyBuyBaby in Greenwood, which is probably around 40 minutes away.  Why?  Because she needed to purchase a baby shower gift and the mom-to-be had only registered at BuyBuyBaby.  I would like to mention here that there is only one BuyBuyBaby store in the entire state of Indiana.  Not very convenient for anyone who doesn't just happen to live in Greenwood.

Now, you can often buy the exact same item from a different store that's closer to home (or from somewhere where that item is cheaper, on sale, or where you have a coupon), but then you won't be able to mark it as purchased on the registry and will risk someone else buying a duplicate present.

So, in the interest of capitalism, I'm going to try to not register at any particular store or stores for baby stuff.  Instead, I'm building an online registry at http://www.myregistry.com/.

Visitors to this site can see what baby items we want and need, but are then free to purchase them anywhere - from any store, from an online site, etc.  If you click on the item, it will redirect you to a particular site.  Some of the items link specifically to Target or Babies R Us or Wal-mart or an online retailer, but that doesn't mean you would have to purchase the item from that store.  You can search for the same item anywhere, then come back to my online registry and mark the gift as purchased.  I like the fact that this gives people more choice about where to shop, as well as more choice as far as picking out specific colors or patterns, since in most cases I don't care as long as it's gender-neutral.

If you'd like to view what we have on our registry so far, go to http://www.myregistry.com/ and type in either my name or Greg's name under "find a registry".  When our names come up, click on "go to registry."  You will first come to our welcome page, and can click on "view registry" near the top of the screen to view our wish list.  If you purchase a gift, you will need to mark it as purchased by returning to our registry, clicking on the item, and then marking in the pop-up screen that you purchased the item.

I thought this post would be timely because of Black Friday coming up, and I know some of our family members are going to want to use our registry to guide them in their Christmas shopping.  Our registry is far from complete - there are a lot of things that need to be added before it is "baby shower ready" - but it's started for anyone interested in looking at it.

From Loving the Life We Live

Sunday, November 21, 2010

A Milestone

Today marks a milestone.

Baby is now at 23 weeks gestation.  That's a milestone because babies born at 23 weeks can *sometimes* survive.  Sometimes may not sound like much, but it's kind of comforting nonetheless to know that, if we ended up with a super-preemie, there would now at least be a chance at life.

If a baby is born at 24 weeks, there is a greater than 50/50 chance of survival, and the odds get better with each additional week of gestation.

Naturally, we are praying for (and expecting to get) 17 more weeks of baking before our baby joins us out in the wide world.  But 23 weeks is still an important milestone that I have been looking forward to throughout this whole pregnancy, so today is a little bit of a landmark day.

From Loving the Life We Live

Saturday, November 20, 2010