Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Never Fear, We're Still Here! - A Long Overdue Update

You may be wondering if I was ever going to post on this blog again . . . I may not have much time on my hands these days, but I won't let this record of our family life fade completely into oblivion.  I have lots of things to share from the past summer and fall!

In early June, we went on a family vacation to South Haven, Michigan, with Greg's parents.  We were joined for portions of the trip by my father-in-law's cousin and by my parents and sister.  We were so lucky to be able to rent an adorable, perfect little house just a block from Lake Michigan and across the street from a large kids' park.  It had absolutely EVERYTHING and the location was perfect.  I think we all fell in love with it.  Watching our children experience a real sandy beach for the first time was delightful, and with Lake Michigan stretching in front of us as far as the eye could see, it was just as good as the ocean.  We were able to walk into town and explore the cute downtown, walk to the lighthouse to watch the sunset, and just relax and enjoy the mild, sunny weather and each other's company.  We also took some fun day trips, including a visit to the Dutch Village in Holland and delicious lunch at Deboer Bakkerij and Dutch Brothers Restaurant and a trip to see the animals at the Critter Barn in Zeeland.  Visiting Saint Joseph was a real highlight as well. We had lunch at Silver Beach Pizza in an Amtrak station and a train went right past our table during our meal (Adam was rather startled!) and enjoyed the carousel, interactive fountain, and great playground on the beach.  I think that more family vacations in Michigan are definitely in our future!

Greg's grandpa died this summer and we all went to North Carolina for the funeral and memorial service in July.  After finding some super cheap airfare, we bought tickets for all four of us and the boys had their first plane ride.  We flew to Atlanta and then rented an SUV and drove up to Asheville.  Both boys did phenomenally well on the trip and it was nice to have time to catch up with Greg's extended family.  Not long afterwards, we were able to go to Missouri and meet their new baby cousin Nora.  Just another sign that Adam isn't "the baby" anymore!

It's true - Adam is not quite a baby anymore as he is now 18 months old.  He took his first step back on May 17 when he and I were playing in the living room.  I had him stand up, reached out my arms, and he took two steps before tumbling proudly into my arms.  He picked up the pace with his walking practice during our Michigan trip, and before you know it, he was a full-time, accomplished walker (and runner!).  He is full of fun and personality; this is such a cute age!  I love one year olds!  (Don't remind me of what the next couple of years may bring!)

Things Adam loves/has loved over the past months:
  • going up and down stairs
  • climbing up on the couch and chairs like a big kid
  • playing with balls (he has a great throwing arm and kicks, too!)
  • anything with wheels (toy cars, pictures of cars/trucks/tractors in books, etc.)
  • playing outside (he will NEVER want to go inside and just wants to get out and play with every wheeled outdoor toy we own)
  • animals (he loves dogs and cats, and loved chasing around the bunny that my sister is fostering)
  • reading (particularly books about animals and trucks)
  • giving people their shoes (see: constant desire to go outside and play)
  • making shrill screaming sounds when he wants something
  • playing hiding/peek-a-boo games
  • pointing at things and saying "dat" (that), wanting me to say the name
  • playing with dinosaurs and roaring . . . he thinks pretty much every animal roars
  • setting up all his dinosaurs and farm animals so they're standing up, then moving them to a different location and doing the same thing
  • dancing to music
  • climbing things - including climbing structures at the park and attempting to climb into his crib
  • roughhousing
  • playing on the bouncy turtle or rocking horse - he does some major rocking on the rocking horse he got for his birthday, and even stands on the seat and rocks a little that way, then plops back down into the seat, thinking he's hilarious
  • getting jealous when I hold Davis and insisting that I hold him, too - I frequently have my arms full of two little boys!  I can't say that I mind it!
Like Davis at this age, he's not much of a talker yet, although he's working on it!  He's making more and more word-like sounds and making more gestures - waving, giving high fives, and laughing and waving his hand is a "stinky" gesture when I comment on his stinky diaper.  He is very good at non-verbal communication and knows how to let us know when he wants a drink, a snack (he loves to get his own applesauce pouches out of the pantry), a toy, or to go outside and play!  When asked, he will identify his tummy, belly button, head, nose, etc.

Adam's 15 month stats:
Weight: 28 lbs. 3 oz. - 97th %ile
Length: 33.5 in. - 98th %ile
Head circumference: 19 in. - 86th %ile

Adam's 18 month stats:
Weight: 28 lbs. 14 oz. - 94th %ile
Length: 34.5 in. - 96th %ile
Head circumference: 19.5 in. - 94th %ile

And our big boy, Davis --- he is growing up before our eyes. Davis is a smart, curious, capable 4.5 year old with a phenomenal memory.  I am in awe of what a great big brother he is, too - it's awesome to see my boys playing together more and more now that Adam is getting older. Adam absolutely adores his big brother, too!  Davis started preschool this year at a local church two days a week and I'm proud of how well he's doing. I can already see his tripod grip is beginning to improve and he's starting to show more interest in drawing and coloring.  Like a typical boy, he unfortunately doesn't tell me much about the things I'd like to hear about what he did at preschool, but he likes it when they have snacks and recess and always tells me which kid(s) "got on yellow" (e.g. got in trouble) each day. Haha - sigh.  He has also started the children's choir at church and I was astonished and proud to see how well he did during their first performance.  He is so inquisitive and asks some great questions and makes pretty insightful observations. Recent gems include "Can we see when we die?" and "Is the Easter bunny real or just a fake bunny?"  He is also a great age for saying totally adorable things, such as thinking that the word for "mittens" is "hand muffins."  I tell him that they're mittens, but secretly I wish he would keep calling them hand muffins forever! He loves to play games, including Uno, which is really fun because it's something we can enjoy as a family that's not just a "kid game."  His preschool class recently drew family pictures and had the teacher scribe something that their family enjoys doing together.  His response: "We love to play Uno game together.  We put down numbers and cards."  He added heart stickers onto each of our chests on the picture because he loves us.  And also spider stickers (?).

We took advantage of the mild weather in the late summer to enjoy more family activities.  We went to a really cool hot air balloon glow and just enjoyed a perfect Sunday night cookout with our adult Sunday school class and our cumulative 14 children.  I just have to say how much I LOVE watching those kids play together, remembering when I started the class back when we were all young couples without children yet, and now our kids (12 of the 14 there being boys!) have a blast playing together.

Heading into fall, we continued loving the life we live - a field trip to the apple orchard with Davis' preschool class, a trip to St. Louis that included visiting good friends and enjoying the St. Louis Zoo, a community parade and festival, and of course trick or treating. Davis was an adorable pirate this year and Adam was Dumbo the Cutest Elephant in the World. I took the boys trick-or-treating at two local nursing homes, which I hope the residents enjoyed and was also good exposure to the elderly for my boys.  The weather surprisingly cooperated on Halloween night...until it started raining on us!  But not until we had done some good trick-or-treating in our neighborhood.  We finally called it a night when the rain picked up and I noted that Adam's fur was getting wet.  :)




Now Thanksgiving and Christmas are fast approaching already.  How time flies!  As they say, when you have young children, the days are long (sometimes sooooo long) but the years are short!  We try to soak up the good moments and enjoy these days together.




Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Family Photos 2015

As you can tell from the updated blog header, which FINALLY reflects Adam as a member of our family, we had family pictures taken in late May.  Although our children were not entirely cooperative in their facial expressions, we did get some great pictures to treasure. Credit @Lissa Smith Photos










 






LOVE this family!!

From Loving the Life We Live

Saturday, June 20, 2015

A Poem


Keep Love in Your Heart, Little One
by Giles Andreae
One evening, long after my sleep time
Big softly crept to my bed
And stretched out warm fingers to ruffle my hair
“I love you, my darling,” Big said.
Now, Big must have thought I was sleeping
And I didn’t open an eye.
Instead I just let the words float through my mind
Like balloons floating up through the sky.
“I love you, my Small,” Big continued
“But there’s so much to do in the day
That it’s hard to sit down and to make enough time
To say all of the things I should say.
“And it’s funny, but now that you’re sleeping
And everything’s quiet and calm
The words seem to be much more easy to speak.”
And Big laid a soft hand on my arm.
“You’re everything I always dreamed of
You’ve got so much beauty inside
The way that you smile, that you laugh, that you dance
Makes my heart want to sing out with pride.
“You live as though life’s one huge present
Unwrapping a bit every day
That’s just how we all should be living, my love
And look at you showing the way!
“And sometimes I know when I scold you
You feel that I’m being unfair
But please understand that it’s just out of love,”
And Big swept back a strand of my hair.
“There are things in this life that can hurt you
They come to us all – that I know.
But they all give us chances to learn, darling Small
And they all give us chances to grow.
“So when you get knocked down, my sweetheart,
Look up at the sky without fear
For sometimes we need to be flat on our backs
Before starlight begins to appear.
“And please above all else remember
Keep love in your heart, little one
Reach out to the world like a beautfiul flower
Stretches out to the warmth of the sun.
“It’s the only sure way to be happy
The only sure way to be free.
Believe in yourself and believe in your dreams
And you’ll be what you dream you can be.”
With that, Big lay down on my pillow
And planted a kiss on my head.
“My beautiful, wonderful, glorious child
You light up my world,” Big then said.
With that, Big crept out of my bedroom
Turning round for one last little peep.
I hugged my small pillow and smiled a big smile
And then slowly I drifted to sleep.
From Loving the Life We Live

Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Happy 1st Birthday, Adam!



Happy first birthday, Adam Leighton Mueller! We are so proud of you, big boy! We love you soooo much!
From Loving the Life We Live

Friday, April 24, 2015

12 Months

Our dear Adam Leighton Mueller is now one year old.  Twelve months ago he came into our lives and made our family complete, and we can't imagine our life without him.

Adam continues to delight us every day.  He adores playing with balls and cars, which is novel to me since Davis was never very into those things.  It is so much fun to roll a ball back and forth with him, or to watch him crawl around while pushing a toy car.  He is a good "player" and especially enjoys anytime that he has an opportunity to play with one of his big brother's toys.  He got his first real haircut and did great - no tears, but a lot of squirming around.  We had a hard time adjusting to his new look after his haircut because he really did look different.  Such a  big boy!

He got his first bad cold a couple of weeks before his birthday, and then he came down with a high fever (as high as 105.2) for a few days.  I even took him to the pediatrician and got chest x-rays (let me tell you, it is an experience trying to get chest x-rays on a baby) to make sure he didn't have pneumonia, but as turns out, he broke out in a horrible rash on his face and trunk a couple of days later - yep, roseola!  Oh joy.  Our sweet little man was a pretty miserable (exhausted, irritable, demanding) baby for 5 or 6 days between the fever and the rash, which luckily faded just in time to celebrate his birthday.  We are so thankful that he came through his illness okay and is now feeling much better.  It is so hard to see your baby suffering and you can't do anything but cuddle them and try to help them through it.

Before haircut:


During:

After:







From Loving the Life We Live